An American Bride in Kabul: A Memoir
Phyllis
Chesler
Palgrave
Macmillan, 2013. 256 pp. US$27.00
Few westerners will ever be able to understand Muslim or
Afghan society unless they are part of a Muslim family. Twenty years old and
in love, Phyllis Chesler, a Jewish-American girl from Brooklyn, embarked on
an adventure that has lasted for more than a half-century. In 1961, when she
arrived in Kabul with her Afghan bridegroom, authorities took away her
American passport. Chesler was now the property of her husband's family and
had no rights of citizenship. Back in Afghanistan, her husband, a wealthy, westernized
foreign college student with dreams of reforming his country, reverted to
traditional and tribal customs. Chesler found herself unexpectedly trapped in
a posh polygamous family, with no chance of escape. She fought against her
seclusion and lack of freedom, her Afghan family's attempts to convert her
from Judaism to Islam, and her husband's wish to permanently tie her to the
country through childbirth.
Drawing upon her personal diaries, Chesler
recounts her ordeal, the nature of gender apartheid--and her longing to
explore this beautiful, ancient, and exotic country and culture. Chesler
nearly died there but she managed to get out, returned to her studies in
America, and became an author and an ardent activist for women's rights
throughout the world. An American Bride in Kabul is the story of how
a naïve American girl learned to see the world through eastern as well as
western eyes and came to appreciate Enlightenment values. This dramatic tale
re-creates a time gone by, a place that is no more, and shares the way in
which Chesler turned adversity into a passion for world-wide social,
educational, and political reform.
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